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Here is a secret technique that I started using recently when it came to improving my social skills. The crazy thing about it is that NO ONE talks about using it to become a more fun and charismatic communicator
The trick is VISUALIZATION!
Have you ever thought about approaching someone, but every possibility you could think of, ended in you completely embarrassing yourself?
Well, visualization is doing that, but instead of seeing the worst-case scenario, you imagine yourself talking to the person with ease.
I recently started practicing this before going out to big social events, and I can confidently say… it’s a GAME CHANGER
This works because the brain can’t tell the difference between a vividly imagined experience and a real one. This is why nightmares leave you in a cold sweat with your heart racing, despite the fact there was nothing in the real world that was affecting you. Your imagination is a powerful thing.
Now, here’s how we use it to our advantage!
If I’m in the moment and I’m about to approach someone, I make it a point to imagine the interaction going great between me and the other person, ESPECIALLY if I’m nervous.
Imagining a bad interaction is one of the worst things you can do.